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    Assalamualaikum, hello!

    Untuk episod kedua, kita akan berbincang tentang imej badan! or body image.

    Imej badan bukan hanya sekadar cara kita melihat tubuh badan di depan cermin tetapi ia termasuk juga cara kita berfikir bagaimana orang lain melihat diri kita, bagaimana kita rasa tentang rupa paras diri, dan imej badan merupakan sebahagian daripada keyakinan diri.

    What do you think of your body image?

    Apa pula maksud imej badan positif?

    Mempunyai imej badan yang positif bermaksud anda berasa selesa dengan badan anda, rasa gembira dengan perkara yang tubuh anda boleh lakukan dan anda mahu menjaga kesihatan fizikal diri.

    Sya tahu sesetengah orang memang risau tentang imej tubuh badan diri, kita rasa kurang self esteem, tak gembira dengan tubuh badan yang ada, malu dengan cara orang lain lihat tubuh badan kita or worse, kita compare badan kita dengan badan orang lain, 

    Imej badan sebenarnya berkait rapat dengan standard kecantikan or in English we called it beauty standards! 

    Beauty standard merupakan standard yang ditetapkan oleh masyarakat dalam penilaian kecantikan dari segi fizikal. Jadi disebabkan terciptanya pelbagai jenis beauty standard di seluruh dunia, termasuklah malaysia, kita rasa pressure kena ikut that beauty standards. oh dekat Malaysia, of course setiap perempuan kena ada kulit yang putih melepak and "fair" barulah ramai suka dan nampak cantik. Betul tak? Sya rasa Sya perasan yang tulah benda yang berlaku di negara kita, terikut-ikut dengan beauty standard negara lain. (Read:Korea)  

    Lepastu, banyak ya iklan pemutih kulit di media sosial yang menyebabkan remaja-remaja zaman sekarang terpengaruh nak ada kulit putih sebab akan baru diregnozid as cantik. It is actually not okay. kita patut terima warna kulit kita seadanya and love our own skin colour! Kulit sya pun, very tan since kecik and in school I played sports through all my teenage years so my skin is not fair at all. Pernah kena ejek tak? of course, I was called hitam by guys when i was in primary school and high school too, well see how the beauty standards made other people insecure about themseleves? their skin? their body?  but I really love my skin now after I realised my skin colour does not define who I am.

    I remembered my favorite English teacher said this before "we should be proud to be women of color!" and I agreed.

    in the end, tak kisah lah apa orang lain nak cakap tentang badan kita, we should appreciate, accept and be confidence in our own skin. I know there are people struggling with this body image, me too, im still struggling and still trying to love my own body. so let's do our best to take care of our bodies and be the best version of ourselves. YOU do you.

    Body Image and Self Esteem

    Untuk pemahaman yang lebih baik,

    Sya kongsikan beberapa video untuk korang tengok! please watch it.



    You're beautiful just the way you are! embrace your differences

    sincerely,

    Syasya♡

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    Assalamualaikum dan hello!

    Kita akan mulakan siri  #GirlsTalk dengan episod pertama iaitu tentang Gender dan Seks.

    Korang perasan tak, ramai sangat zaman sekarang tak faham apa sebenarnya apa maksud gender dan seks/jantina.

    Apa pula Gender stereotypes?

    Contohnya, kenapa orang cakap lelaki tak boleh menangis? sebab lelaki kena tunjuk yang diorang ni kuat dan kalau untuk perempuan pula, kena lemah lembut sifatnya.

    ini adalah contoh Gender streotaip yang dicipta oleh masyarakat. 

    Benda ni lah yang membuatkan kita fikir yang lelaki dan perempuan kena ada certain sifat-sifat yang hanya boleh ada pada jantina mereka sahaja.

    This is wrong.

    lelaki boleh menangis dan perempuan tak semestinya lemah lembut.

    Apa yang Sya nak cerita sebenarnya ni? 

    we're influenced so much because of the stereotypes that society made on how to act or do something and it changed our perspectives on how we see men and women.

    Apa perbezaan Gender dan Seks?

    Gender ialah streotaip yang diberikan oleh masyarakat dan boleh berubah mengikut zaman. Tanggapan gender biasanya mengikut jantina seseorang dan diberikan oleh masyarakat. Ramai disini masih keliru dan salah dimana mereka fikir gender itu adalah sama dengan jantina tetapi tidak. Jantina ialah seks kita iaitu sama ada lelaki atau perempuan. 

    contohnya, cara berpakaian, sikap dan tingkah laku seperti yang sya cerita dia atas.

    Apa itu seks?

    Seks/Jantina ialah perbezaan biologi di antara lelaki dan wanita dari segi struktur tulang, kromosom, hormon, alat kelamin dan sebagainya.

    Contohnya, hanya wanita yang boleh melahirkan dan menyusukan anak. 

    isu dia pada zaman sekarang, impak gender stereotaip ini banyak ke arah buruk yang boleh menyebabkan keyakinan seseorang menurun kerana meletakkan seseorang dia bawah sesuatu persepsi yang kita fikirkan. Stereotaip  dapat menyebabkan seseorang menjalani kehidupan yang didorong oleh kebencian, dan boleh menyebabkan mangsa-mangsa stereotaip itu didorong oleh rasa takut.

    Bahkan, gender streotaip ini telah menjadi norma dalam masyarakat sejak kanak-kanak lagi seperti lelaki tidak boleh menyukai warna pink kerana ianya adalah warna bersifat feminim dan kanak-kanak perempuan hanya boleh bermain dengan anak patung ketika kecil.

    Realitinya, Sya rasa semua orang pernah berdepan dengan situasi gender streotype ni, mungkin kita tidak sedar yang perkataan dan perbuatan yang dilakukan merupakan gender stereotaip yang mungkin pernah meyakiti perasaan orang lain. huwaaaaa.

    Sya pernah lalui sendiri, dan pernah lihat dan dengar cerita daripada ramai kawan-kawan yang penat hadap benda ni sampai gender streotaip ni dah biasa dalam keluarga pun. Contohnya, yang ramai adik beradik tapi hanya si kakak yang kena buat semua kerja rumah seperti memasak,mengemas,lipat baju, iron baju, yang si adik beradik lelaki? tak buat apa-apa macam raja di rumah. bila disuruh tolong, katanya "kerja perempuan" it is what the teenagers are faced now. and the parents? had the same mentality. 

    An article about gender stereotypes > How Gender Stereotypes Kills a Woman

    Untuk pemahaman yang lebih baik, Sya akan kongsi beberapa video mengenai topik ini, jom kita tengok sama-sama!

    Make sure tengok untuk lebih faham ya! 




    Sya harap perkongsian harini bermanfaat untuk semua! Sya dengan terbuka hati untuk terima teguran dan discussion/pendapat rakan-rakan blogger di ruangan komen!

    Let's educate ourselves and be a better person/friend/sister/brother/parent in the future.

    question: have you ever encountered any gender stereotypes? Just comment down below and lets begin our discussions! Sya pun nak tahu berapa ramai orang yang pernah kena? adakah perempuan sahaja yang selalu kena gender stereotaip ni?

    QOTD : Now semua dah faham perbezaan gender dan seks yang selalu orang salah faham?

    There is no limit to what we, as women can accomplish

    Sincerely, 

    Syasya♡


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    Assalamualaikum and hello

    I have been thinking about this for few months that I wanted to do this. 

    making a series where I shared all the knowledge I learned from a program called GOAL.

    Goal is an award-winning development program that uses sport and life skills education to transform the lives of adolescent girls. It teaches communication, building self-confidence, and valuing what it means to "be a girl" Goal also teaches general health, reproduction health and hygiene, and everything you need to know to be healthy! Next, ways to access resources and institutions in the community so that women can be empowered.  Lastly, Goal teaches about financial literacy and money management on how to be money savvy.

    I did learned all of these modules and successfully graduated as a goal girl and obtained the highest goal points. It was a 15 week programmed and frankly speaking I had so much fun learning, and experiencing all these things that girls and women need to know. 
    Would you like to join in the journey with me?


    But I need help! This is not going to go well if I don't have an audience and I can't widely share it and (apparently, I wasn't active on the blog, so I have lost many readers). I wish everyone can help me by supporting my first-time series by spreading awareness about it or just keeping this series enliven in the comments! I'm so thrilled and excited to do this.
    Im still confused about choosing between writing it in English or in Bahasa but I think I will write in Bahasa where I feel more confident to write. 

    Kawan-kawan community blogger jemput ramai-ramai baca blog sya okey!


    #QOTD : What are your thoughts on this? are you excited to know what is topic will be the first ep? stay tuned! ♡

    Let's do this together <3
    Sincerely

    Syasya

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    Assalamualaikum and hi everyone,

    it's me syasya..yes I missed my blog so much, I used to be so active back then but now I couldn't even start writing..im here because I just want to write updates about myself and my life, to keep it here. did you guys read one of my recent posts before this? there was this one comment that touched me which was kak @mijablur saying that she missed reading my blog..and asked to keep blogging..omg I don't know..there are people who remembered my blog?? huwaa I feel appreciated and touched haha..thank you for still stopping by here once in a while.

    The titled haha, my birthday has passed dah, on July... but I just want to tell you everything that is going on right now..after my spm result..upu result came out, I managed to secure a place in UIA! I got my third choice which was asasi dalam perancangan pelancongan dan pengurusan hospitality. it was my target also to enter uia actually! and then I received another offer which was a diploma in marketing in another college. After having a lot of thoughts, I've decided to take the course that I think im really into so I decided to take marketing. and here I am, going into my 9 weeks of online distance learning haha.

    MasyaAllah tak cayee dah masuk belajar diploma..no i wanna go back in school please huwaa.

    I really hope I made the right choice. InsyaAllah. So far it has been alright for me, it's so weird to be friends with people online but you haven't even met them yet! haha. All day every day just sitting at home, building up fats in my body. ish3. Actually, I don't think I did anything fun or anything these days so there's not much about me... 

    I've started reading books back because finally, I've got the time to relax and read haha but so far managed to finish my target 5/5 books for this year! well, it still progresses right? and now reading the seventh book hehe. 

    Being 18, of course, it is the time where you will experience a new journey right? I mean like you're done with school, you're going into university life, like the next phase of your life I would say? and you have to be more independent? and mature? be more of an adult?  it scared me actually. oh my sooner im going back to college, I've never been apart from my family. 18 years I've been living with my parents and im very closed with them..maybe that's why..im scared at the same time im excited about what's coming for me... I also don't take driver's license yet aduh..my mom has scolded me because of sya tak daftar lagi pastu lockdown and so sampai sekarang lah...

    you know right after school, you don't get to meet your friends anymore, and yes I realized you just stop talking to some people because everyone has their own life now, and own paths...kan masa dekat dekat sekolah setiap hari boleh tegur everyone now everyone is minding their own business...but I still contact with some of the closed ones..and get to know my friends' updates on social media is good enough for me... I hope everyone is doing well insyaAllah.

    I was actually preparing to start a series on my blog and it's called #GirlsTalk where we discuss a lot of things, more to women empowerment, and I have managed to only finished 2 episodes before I suddenly stopped writing huwaa..I don't know if I should post it or not but I really want to share it. should I? 

    I think that's all for now, I hope everyone is doing fine and take care of yourself. 

    Here is a quote I found today on Twitter.

    Be grateful that certain things didn't work out. Sometimes we don’t even know what we’re being protected from, or where we’re being guided to in the middle of chaos. That’s why it’s important to just have trust that bigger things are lining up for you. Let it go, and let it be. - @muslimthoughts1

    ps: if you're reading my post, let's interact in the comments below :)

    Sincerely,



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    Hi, Assalamualaikum semua, sya dah lama tak banyak cerita dekat sini, bila baca balik post-post lama banyak betul cerita sya tulis kat sini. Harini terdetik nak bukak blog and tengok2, alang-alang tu sya nak cerita about my result  just wanted to put it up here for memories. Nanti bila dah 30-an baca balik.
    Latest post haritu sya tulis pasal dah habis sekolah, kalini sya nak cerita semalam result spm 2020 keluar! 

    Ya allah hari yang ditunggu semua batch 2003 tiba. 


    Semalam 10/6/2021 
    Of course few days before result day tu pun dah start nervous sebab what if tak dapat apa yang sya target, what if kecewakan parents and family and the pressure sebab kakak abang sya result spm semua hebat2. all these things going through my mind. Lagi satu, it is different sebab semua kakak and abang sya amik science stream but sya amik aliran sastera because im not that smart. so I couldn't ask my siblings about my studies and because of different subjects, I had to learn everything new alone and struggled a lot. tapi wah, masa awal-awal tingkatan 4 tu rasa best gila sebab kena beli semua buku rujukan  baru lah takyah pakai yang lama hahahah. 
    Sya lama tak update kan blog ni sebab malas and takde benda menarik pun nak cerita all this time duduk rumah and online class je. As far as i remember 2020, sya sekolah tak sampai 5 bulan. it was hard, studying at home. Kat rumah sya buat study group everyday dengan 2 orang kawan sya, malam pon study sama-sama. sebab takde motivation nak study, but when with friends, baru boleh hadap buku la jugak. 


    and trial came, ok time tu satu malaysia spm trial tapi kes kat selangor naik teruk gile tetiba time trial tu selangor lockdown pulak, so trial separuh jalan, tak habis pun (mostly students selangor je yg tak habis) lepastu macam2 jadi, kpm kata tak payah sambung trial bila bukak sekolah. so dapatlah result trial spm yang separuh jalan haha. Result sya teruk, 3A je kot rasanya or 4A but alhamdulillah!! Sya ajar kawan sya English sebab suka subjek tu hehe pastu trial dorang dapat A, ya allah happy gila rasa mcam a proud teacher haha. and then buka sekolah dapat study sekejap je next monthnya terus spm, sya takde expectation sangat pun, i just want to do my best and want it to end. of course time spm tu ada la hari yang balik je menangis sebab rasa jawab dengan sangat teruk. tup tap 25/3 last paper. and finished school! read sya punya post sebelum ni huhu.
    Pastu tak pikir apa dah, enjoy je cuti kejap then cari kerja! sya alhamdulillah dapat kerja dekat kedai baju PADINI jadi part time promoter tu hahah. It was such a whole new experience. Bangga dengan diri sendiri. 


    ok now yesterday, result keluar pukul 10 pagi dan patutnya semua orang check la on time tapi sya terbangun lambat, tu pun sebab kawan yang call. sya pun check fon beratus mesej semua bising dah check result haha..time ni still lagi atas katil mamai je.. :( pastu mak and kakak sya excited la nak tengok but sya tak kasi dorang check dulu..so sya pun check je atas katil.....masukkan no angka giliran and ic...and heres my result :



    I have never cry because of how proud i am with my result. and yesterday i did, sya nampak je result terus menangis kegembiraan. menanges weyyy, genuinely happy tears. sebab tak sangka i did it, it was beyond my expectations. Alhamdulillah, syukur sangat. sya nangis sebab terkejut pastu my mom pon nangis sebab lagilah terkejut ahahah. dia pon tak expect! i still feel like it was dream, tak pernah capai gred macamni, sebab sya biasa2 je sekolah pun sekolah harian biasa jee. all the efforts were paid off. sya banyak terima kasih sangat dekat kawan2 sya yang sanggup study dengan sya, kena paksa study, and ramai lah banyak tolong sya. i think because of them, sya dapat this result. sya tak tahu nak cakap camne cam tak percayeee pastu sya pun later that day sujud syukur dan mesej semua cikgu2 sya and kawan utk berterima kasih. im so thankful.



    mesej ustazah, reply ustazah excited sangat sampai sya pun rasa nak nangis balik huwaa.




    and lastly, I thanked my maths tutor, look at her reply? made me cry again. dia volunteer jadi free tutor sya and im so thankful! result maths sya sebelum ni tak pernah cecah b+ pun. it was my weakest subject that I dont like. so bila nampak result b+ tu yg nangis sangat. memang risau tu jee huu. Ekonomi dengan perniagaan pun gentle sya cakap susah, tapi alhamdulillah macam mana entah dapat A :') berkat doa2 kawan2 dan keluarga sya maybe. again im so so thankful for this. This was the best result I have ever got in my entire high school journey. Alhamdulillah thanks to Allah SWT. 
    For the first time ever, I think I made my parents and family really proud of me♡
    Thank you for reading! 
    Sorry kalini penulisan sya macam santai betul.
    Good luck dear self for your future endeavor♡
    ps: im so proud of everyone who took their spm result. we did our best and im super proud of you :'')
    qotd : korang pun bangga tak dengan sya? :"(
     ada nasihat utk melangkah ke alam univerisity tak? huwaaaa
    Sincerely,

    Syasya♡

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    Assalamualaikum, hello everyone.

    how have you been? It's been so long since I was on the blog, probably all of my audience is gone by now, and forget my blog existence isn't it? if you didn't forget about me please comment down below! hahaha. I also did archive all of my writings though. Im so sorry for not actively writing but I do come here once in a while...


    This year, 2021,

    I will be 18 years old.

    Time flies so fast, I felt quite sad because I'm growing up and going to be an adult. I just finished my SPM on 25/3. That was my last day of school. No more baju kurung. Yes, we're batch spm pro max tu! 

    who did expect we will take our spm at the age of 18? not me! haha.

    In this post, I would like to write a conclusion or recap what I can say about my high school journey.

    Enjoy reading...

    5 years of high school, was it memorable? I would say definitely. It made me who I am today. 

    It's not about what I just learned but I think it's the friends that I have in high school that made my life as a high school student better. The memories, ups, and downs. 

    But sadly, last year, where I supposed to be having the best year of my life, my last year as a form 5 student or so-called senior year they said, didn't turn out to be how it was supposed to be. 

    All the things we imagined when we were15 like graduations, the last Raya celebration, hanging out with friends, more school events didn't happen because of the pandemic we're having. oh, not to mention, we just go to school for the first few months only and spent most of the time at home because of the lockdown.

    no, im not blaming the situation or anything! even so, these things happened, there were that better things that happened such as I get to spend more time with my whole family, puasa together, solat terawih together. it was such a blessing in disguise.

    so we were doing that online learning for few months and no it's not easy, I've heard so many people struggled to keep  balance between online class and house chores. and those who find it hard to study at home and also those who have family issues. 

    what a struggling year for everyone.

    and then, the school opened!

    I met my friends and everything went so fast, all I could remember was the next week is spm.

    really, I don't think I have many memories of last year with my friends. 

    it's okay I guess, but when we came back to school, I made many memories with my friends.

    form 4 and form 5 I think would be the best year because my classmates are something else. hahaha. 

    I became close to people I have never thought I would be close to. all the struggles for spm we had back then. My friend's struggles. I'm so happy it is finally over now. 

    I hope I will get good results and make my parents and everyone proud of me.

    I hope you can pray for me as well. Thank you!

    I wanted to thank my friends who help me go through this pandemic, who has been there for me. I'm really glad to have them in my life and I made new friends too during the pandemic. Mi, the person who I've never met but we're comfortable talking on the phone. haha. That's the coolest thing I did. and there's Fatin, the nicest Selangor gal who helps me a lot with my studies. <3

    now, it's the end of my high school journey. 

    I'm going to open a new chapter in my life where I will meet new people, I will be in a new surrounding. and adulting? Im scared. 

    at the same time, I'm excited to see what's going to come for me. 

    May Allah ease everything. 

    I want to end this post with a letter to my friends :

    Choosing this school was not my decision and I always complained to someone that I wanted to move high school but hey I've officially finished 5 freaking years in here. and walking home every day for 5 years with my friends. isn't that cool. haha. I would cherish every memory that I have in here as long as I can remember it! (I have short-term memory lol), the pranks I did, the games we played, the silly arguments I had with you. the heartbreaks? haha kidding. They said high school friends will be the most special people in your life. I think it is true. my friends here would always have a special place in my heart. Ceh. 

    I hope everyone will have brighter days ahead,

    Now everyone has their own path and I wish nothing but the best for my friends, I hope you will achieve your dreams. 

    enjoy the process and I hope we can meet again one day.

    it's sad that high school won't last forever no matter how much I want it.

    and I'm so thrilled to see my friend's life updates and keep in touch with everyone. InsyaAllah.

    Let's close the final chapter of a good book and open a new one.

    QOTD: How were your feelings when you just finished high school?

    I would love to know!!

    Sincerely,

    Syasya ♡

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