Assalamualaikum, hello!

Untuk episod kedua, kita akan berbincang tentang imej badan! or body image.

Imej badan bukan hanya sekadar cara kita melihat tubuh badan di depan cermin tetapi ia termasuk juga cara kita berfikir bagaimana orang lain melihat diri kita, bagaimana kita rasa tentang rupa paras diri, dan imej badan merupakan sebahagian daripada keyakinan diri.

What do you think of your body image?

Apa pula maksud imej badan positif?

Mempunyai imej badan yang positif bermaksud anda berasa selesa dengan badan anda, rasa gembira dengan perkara yang tubuh anda boleh lakukan dan anda mahu menjaga kesihatan fizikal diri.

Sya tahu sesetengah orang memang risau tentang imej tubuh badan diri, kita rasa kurang self esteem, tak gembira dengan tubuh badan yang ada, malu dengan cara orang lain lihat tubuh badan kita or worse, kita compare badan kita dengan badan orang lain, 

Imej badan sebenarnya berkait rapat dengan standard kecantikan or in English we called it beauty standards! 

Beauty standard merupakan standard yang ditetapkan oleh masyarakat dalam penilaian kecantikan dari segi fizikal. Jadi disebabkan terciptanya pelbagai jenis beauty standard di seluruh dunia, termasuklah malaysia, kita rasa pressure kena ikut that beauty standards. oh dekat Malaysia, of course setiap perempuan kena ada kulit yang putih melepak and "fair" barulah ramai suka dan nampak cantik. Betul tak? Sya rasa Sya perasan yang tulah benda yang berlaku di negara kita, terikut-ikut dengan beauty standard negara lain. (Read:Korea)  

Lepastu, banyak ya iklan pemutih kulit di media sosial yang menyebabkan remaja-remaja zaman sekarang terpengaruh nak ada kulit putih sebab akan baru diregnozid as cantik. It is actually not okay. kita patut terima warna kulit kita seadanya and love our own skin colour! Kulit sya pun, very tan since kecik and in school I played sports through all my teenage years so my skin is not fair at all. Pernah kena ejek tak? of course, I was called hitam by guys when i was in primary school and high school too, well see how the beauty standards made other people insecure about themseleves? their skin? their body?  but I really love my skin now after I realised my skin colour does not define who I am.

I remembered my favorite English teacher said this before "we should be proud to be women of color!" and I agreed.

in the end, tak kisah lah apa orang lain nak cakap tentang badan kita, we should appreciate, accept and be confidence in our own skin. I know there are people struggling with this body image, me too, im still struggling and still trying to love my own body. so let's do our best to take care of our bodies and be the best version of ourselves. YOU do you.

Body Image and Self Esteem

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Sya kongsikan beberapa video untuk korang tengok! please watch it.

You're beautiful just the way you are! embrace your differences

sincerely,

Syasya♡

Assalamualaikum dan hello!

Kita akan mulakan siri  #GirlsTalk dengan episod pertama iaitu tentang Gender dan Seks.

Korang perasan tak, ramai sangat zaman sekarang tak faham apa sebenarnya apa maksud gender dan seks/jantina.

Apa pula Gender stereotypes?

Contohnya, kenapa orang cakap lelaki tak boleh menangis? sebab lelaki kena tunjuk yang diorang ni kuat dan kalau untuk perempuan pula, kena lemah lembut sifatnya.

ini adalah contoh Gender streotaip yang dicipta oleh masyarakat. 

Benda ni lah yang membuatkan kita fikir yang lelaki dan perempuan kena ada certain sifat-sifat yang hanya boleh ada pada jantina mereka sahaja.

This is wrong.

lelaki boleh menangis dan perempuan tak semestinya lemah lembut.

Apa yang Sya nak cerita sebenarnya ni? 

we're influenced so much because of the stereotypes that society made on how to act or do something and it changed our perspectives on how we see men and women.

Apa perbezaan Gender dan Seks?

Gender ialah streotaip yang diberikan oleh masyarakat dan boleh berubah mengikut zaman. Tanggapan gender biasanya mengikut jantina seseorang dan diberikan oleh masyarakat. Ramai disini masih keliru dan salah dimana mereka fikir gender itu adalah sama dengan jantina tetapi tidak. Jantina ialah seks kita iaitu sama ada lelaki atau perempuan. 

contohnya, cara berpakaian, sikap dan tingkah laku seperti yang sya cerita dia atas.

Apa itu seks?

Seks/Jantina ialah perbezaan biologi di antara lelaki dan wanita dari segi struktur tulang, kromosom, hormon, alat kelamin dan sebagainya.

Contohnya, hanya wanita yang boleh melahirkan dan menyusukan anak. 

isu dia pada zaman sekarang, impak gender stereotaip ini banyak ke arah buruk yang boleh menyebabkan keyakinan seseorang menurun kerana meletakkan seseorang dia bawah sesuatu persepsi yang kita fikirkan. Stereotaip  dapat menyebabkan seseorang menjalani kehidupan yang didorong oleh kebencian, dan boleh menyebabkan mangsa-mangsa stereotaip itu didorong oleh rasa takut.

Bahkan, gender streotaip ini telah menjadi norma dalam masyarakat sejak kanak-kanak lagi seperti lelaki tidak boleh menyukai warna pink kerana ianya adalah warna bersifat feminim dan kanak-kanak perempuan hanya boleh bermain dengan anak patung ketika kecil.

Realitinya, Sya rasa semua orang pernah berdepan dengan situasi gender streotype ni, mungkin kita tidak sedar yang perkataan dan perbuatan yang dilakukan merupakan gender stereotaip yang mungkin pernah meyakiti perasaan orang lain. huwaaaaa.

Sya pernah lalui sendiri, dan pernah lihat dan dengar cerita daripada ramai kawan-kawan yang penat hadap benda ni sampai gender streotaip ni dah biasa dalam keluarga pun. Contohnya, yang ramai adik beradik tapi hanya si kakak yang kena buat semua kerja rumah seperti memasak,mengemas,lipat baju, iron baju, yang si adik beradik lelaki? tak buat apa-apa macam raja di rumah. bila disuruh tolong, katanya "kerja perempuan" it is what the teenagers are faced now. and the parents? had the same mentality. 

An article about gender stereotypes > How Gender Stereotypes Kills a Woman

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Make sure tengok untuk lebih faham ya! 

Sya harap perkongsian harini bermanfaat untuk semua! Sya dengan terbuka hati untuk terima teguran dan discussion/pendapat rakan-rakan blogger di ruangan komen!

Let's educate ourselves and be a better person/friend/sister/brother/parent in the future.

question: have you ever encountered any gender stereotypes? Just comment down below and lets begin our discussions! Sya pun nak tahu berapa ramai orang yang pernah kena? adakah perempuan sahaja yang selalu kena gender stereotaip ni?

QOTD : Now semua dah faham perbezaan gender dan seks yang selalu orang salah faham?

There is no limit to what we, as women can accomplish

Sincerely, 

Syasya♡

Assalamualaikum and hello

I have been thinking about this for few months that I wanted to do this. 

making a series where I shared all the knowledge I learned from a program called GOAL.

Assalamualaikum and hi everyone,

it's me syasya..yes I missed my blog so much, I used to be so active back then but now I couldn't even start writing..im here because I just want to write updates about myself and my life, to keep it here. did you guys read one of my recent posts before this? there was this one comment that touched me which was kak @mijablur saying that she missed reading my blog..and asked to keep blogging..omg I don't know..there are people who remembered my blog?? huwaa I feel appreciated and touched haha..thank you for still stopping by here once in a while.

The titled haha, my birthday has passed dah, on July... but I just want to tell you everything that is going on right now..after my spm result..upu result came out, I managed to secure a place in UIA! I got my third choice which was asasi dalam perancangan pelancongan dan pengurusan hospitality. it was my target also to enter uia actually! and then I received another offer which was a diploma in marketing in another college. After having a lot of thoughts, I've decided to take the course that I think im really into so I decided to take marketing. and here I am, going into my 9 weeks of online distance learning haha.

MasyaAllah tak cayee dah masuk belajar diploma..no i wanna go back in school please huwaa.

I really hope I made the right choice. InsyaAllah. So far it has been alright for me, it's so weird to be friends with people online but you haven't even met them yet! haha. All day every day just sitting at home, building up fats in my body. ish3. Actually, I don't think I did anything fun or anything these days so there's not much about me... 

I've started reading books back because finally, I've got the time to relax and read haha but so far managed to finish my target 5/5 books for this year! well, it still progresses right? and now reading the seventh book hehe. 

Being 18, of course, it is the time where you will experience a new journey right? I mean like you're done with school, you're going into university life, like the next phase of your life I would say? and you have to be more independent? and mature? be more of an adult?  it scared me actually. oh my sooner im going back to college, I've never been apart from my family. 18 years I've been living with my parents and im very closed with them..maybe that's why..im scared at the same time im excited about what's coming for me... I also don't take driver's license yet aduh..my mom has scolded me because of sya tak daftar lagi pastu lockdown and so sampai sekarang lah...

you know right after school, you don't get to meet your friends anymore, and yes I realized you just stop talking to some people because everyone has their own life now, and own paths...kan masa dekat dekat sekolah setiap hari boleh tegur everyone now everyone is minding their own business...but I still contact with some of the closed ones..and get to know my friends' updates on social media is good enough for me... I hope everyone is doing well insyaAllah.

I was actually preparing to start a series on my blog and it's called #GirlsTalk where we discuss a lot of things, more to women empowerment, and I have managed to only finished 2 episodes before I suddenly stopped writing huwaa..I don't know if I should post it or not but I really want to share it. should I? 

I think that's all for now, I hope everyone is doing fine and take care of yourself. 

Here is a quote I found today on Twitter.

Be grateful that certain things didn't work out. Sometimes we don’t even know what we’re being protected from, or where we’re being guided to in the middle of chaos. That’s why it’s important to just have trust that bigger things are lining up for you. Let it go, and let it be. - @muslimthoughts1

ps: if you're reading my post, let's interact in the comments below :)

Sincerely,